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START HERE: I’m not really an optimist
Why I'm attempting a fresh start (and my unlikely journey into hope)
May 11
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Emma Vivian
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A welcome thread for new readers (and longtime lurkers)
I'm looking at you. Yes—you. Come say hi!
May 18
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Emma Vivian
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Tools for the optimist-ish: June edition
This month is sponsored by flowers. Plus, I hiked a section of the South West Coast Path!
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Attempt to act normal at a writers' conference
Mar 30
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Emma Vivian
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Tools for the optimist-ish: June edition
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Attempt at remembering without unravelling
Jun 15
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Emma Vivian
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Optimist vs the frenemy: what The White Lotus taught me about female friendship
May 4
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Emma Vivian
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Optimist vs bad news
Jun 7
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Emma Vivian
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Letter from a fellow optimist: Jeannie Ewing on responding to the moment you find yourself in
Jun 22
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Jeannie Ewing
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Letter from a fellow optimist: Jeannie Ewing on responding to the moment you find yourself in
Hi fellow optimist-in-progress,
Jun 22
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Jeannie Ewing
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Attempt at remembering without unravelling
On returning to Brighton, and all the ghosts that live there
Jun 15
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Emma Vivian
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Optimist vs bad news
What happens when life throws a plot twist at your best efforts to hope.
Jun 7
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Tools for the optimist-ish: May edition
May edition: A few things that made me happy this month
Jun 1
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Emma Vivian
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This month in trying: May edition
Libraries, coyotes and margaritas
May 25
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Emma Vivian
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Tools for the optimist(ish)
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Tools for the optimist-ish: June edition
This month is sponsored by flowers. Plus, I hiked a section of the South West Coast Path!
19 hrs ago
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Emma Vivian
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Tools for the optimist-ish: May edition
May edition: A few things that made me happy this month
Jun 1
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Emma Vivian
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Tools for the optimist-ish: March edition
Flying snakes, wine tasting and pink blossoms
Mar 23
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Emma Vivian
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Tools for the optimist-ish: February edition
Big Magic, carrot soup and free pickleballs
Feb 9
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Emma Vivian
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Optimist vs bad news
What happens when life throws a plot twist at your best efforts to hope.
Jun 7
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Emma Vivian
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Optimist vs the frenemy: what The White Lotus taught me about female friendship
Fake acceptance, oozing judgement, and the deadly sting of the frenemy.
May 4
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Emma Vivian
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Optimist vs Airbnb management
Lessons learned: always photograph the towels, never trust the cancellation policy, and be sure to bring your own bleach.
Apr 27
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Emma Vivian
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Optimist vs overpriced urine
Cautious hope and an incalculable cost-per-piss.
Apr 6
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Emma Vivian
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Attempt at remembering without unravelling
On returning to Brighton, and all the ghosts that live there
Jun 15
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Emma Vivian
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Attempt at finding a home (after 8 months living in Airbnbs)
Storage units, kitchen appliances, and groundless roots
Apr 20
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Emma Vivian
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Attempt at being an interesting person
(Spoiler: Just do stuff)
Apr 13
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Emma Vivian
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Attempt to act normal at a writers' conference
I went to 2025 AWP, and all I got was mildly empowered. (I also got a cute tote bag.)
Mar 30
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Emma Vivian
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START HERE: I’m not really an optimist
Why I'm attempting a fresh start (and my unlikely journey into hope)
May 11
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Emma Vivian
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I tried to make my chemo port into a Christmas ornament
It was a bad idea (too much blood)
Feb 16
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Emma Vivian
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Puberty 2.0: Getting My Hormones Back After Breast Cancer
Almost six years on from being diagnosed with breast cancer at 29, I'm finally getting my hormones back.
Oct 23, 2024
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Emma Vivian
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Chemo Made My Hair Fall Out. Being Told It Would Grow Back Didn’t Help Me.
At age 29, I lost most of my hair while in treatment for aggressive breast cancer. Over five years later, and now in remission, I'm reflecting on the…
Oct 15, 2024
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Emma Vivian
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Chemo Made My Hair Fall Out. Being Told It Would Grow Back Didn’t Help Me.
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What is your Substack even about? And do you like it?
A recording from Emma Vivian and Sarah Fay - SW@W's live video
May 12
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Emma Vivian
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Petya K. Grady
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Optimist vs the frenemy: what The White Lotus taught me about female friendship
Fake acceptance, oozing judgement, and the deadly sting of the frenemy.
May 4
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Emma Vivian
37
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Optimist vs the frenemy: what The White Lotus taught me about female friendship
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Optimist vs Airbnb management
Lessons learned: always photograph the towels, never trust the cancellation policy, and be sure to bring your own bleach.
Apr 27
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Emma Vivian
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Attempt at finding a home (after 8 months living in Airbnbs)
Storage units, kitchen appliances, and groundless roots
Apr 20
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Emma Vivian
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Attempt at being an interesting person
(Spoiler: Just do stuff)
Apr 13
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Emma Vivian
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Optimist vs overpriced urine
Cautious hope and an incalculable cost-per-piss.
Apr 6
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Emma Vivian
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Attempt to act normal at a writers' conference
I went to 2025 AWP, and all I got was mildly empowered. (I also got a cute tote bag.)
Mar 30
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Emma Vivian
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Tools for the optimist-ish: March edition
Flying snakes, wine tasting and pink blossoms
Mar 23
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Emma Vivian
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